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We need to look at what we do know though. Given the media coverage and uproar over this inicident in Britain, and given her role in the incident, I'm gonna take a guess and say that her suicide was triggered by the prank call fiasco. It's something that would make a mentally healthy person upset and stressed, so it's a fair call to make I think. |
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What is the probability that someone is going to neck themselves because you prank called them? I'd say close enough to 0%. Every kid made a prank call or ten back in the day; I know I sure did, nd as far as I know no one died. You can't put that on the radio presenters. They were having a laugh with no real malice and something completely unthinkable happened. It is tragic that she ended her life, but putting the blame on the radio presenters for her death due to prank calling her is like trying to suggest that egging someone's house is will make them jump in front of a train. R.I.P,
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I didn't explain myself very well the point I'm trying to make is that yes, there are million and one things that could have led to her suicide but given the situation, it's a fair call to say the phone prank was the trigger. Given what we do know, it seems like the most likely inference.
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Interesting to hear the "this person wasn't of sound mind" type comments. The reality is mental health is very very common. Most people suffer depression at some stage in their lives. All it takes is a certain combination of events to push them too far. Most workplaces are usually unaware of people's personal stress and don't go out of their way with employees until they put their hand clearly up themselves. This poor lady was at that point and what some define as harmless tipped her over the edge. Maybe the forums people could find more sympathy if they stop to consider a time of stress in their own lives, money/debt, relationship breakup, poor work conditions. Who knows what else was on this lady's plate and then this happened. Just some thoughts.
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Find these "it wasn't intended to be bullying, we were just having fun" comments interesting. Just had to do our annual refresher training at work, and bullying was one of the topics. This topic was heavily covered- it doesn't matter what your intentions were, if the target feels as if they are being harassed/bullied (and a reasonable person may in the same situation), then it's harassment/bullying. I was a target of heavy bullying at school, and the "they were just having fun with you" justification was pedalled madly by the school, parents, etc. It can be just as hard to hear that as the bullying, you feel as if you are in trouble for speaking up.
Not having a shot/go at anybody here, just trying to provide an "other side" story to those who may not have experienced this first hand. I agree there are definitely those out there who will take offence to the slightest thing, but there are a lot of people in the world, a lot of different societal standards, cultures and ideas of what is ok and what isn't. People (nobody on here!!) need to remember this, and exercise some judgement IMO.
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Knew nothing about it until now. Sounds like all hell is breaking lose. Sponsors are pulling out in assumption the call led to the suicide.
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08-12-2012, 02:20 PM | #41 | ||
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http://news.ninemsn.com.au/national/...-nurse-s-death
and now the hypocrites from coles have pulled their advertising - either the prank call or broadcasting it was immoral or it was not. recent events do not change that fact, but pretending to be a conscientious company, they now decide to care i don't have a problem with the call as such - just the fact it was broadcast. they idiots had no way of knowing how much it would affect the nurse/receptionist but they did not care the call itself was harmless enough, because no one would have expected it to be successful. i personally hate gotcha calls and shows like pranked for the reason jim gave earlier. there is no way matt tilley, ashton kuncther, sandilands and the like can know how close to the edge someone may be. sure we cannot wrap people in cotton wool, but deliberately raising their heart rate and blood pressure and potentially exposing them to such ridicule is lower than low to say the least |
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I'm enjoying many of the comments in social media. People are quick to preach about how terribly insensitive the hosts are, then they'll exercise their sensitive values in calling the hosts murderers. Love it.
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What a joke - Coles and Telstra pulling their advertising.
Maybe Telstra are sick of being the butt of so many telecom jokes. It is such an outlandish over-reaction to the situation. As I said earlier, have a good look inside, people! |
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It’s OK to be part of a duopoly that rips money out of every single Australian, have different sets of OH&S rules for different people and where contractors are nothing but second class citizens, yeah, that’s OK but a prank call, that’s a bloody outrage. This could be a really good thing for people who listen to the radio. Coles and Telstra adds really **** me so I should start listening to stations that don’t play their adds.
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I'm still trying to understand what the radio presenters did wrong?
It's not like they called in a bomb threat to the White House |
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08-12-2012, 04:19 PM | #47 | |||
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Then again, everybody has the ability to say no to stuff like this and walk away. Whilst they may have thought the initial prank call wasn't the worst idea, they are the ones talking on the radio, and announcing it to thousands of people. Feel sorry for them though, at the end of the day the producers and other people behind the scenes should have taken responsibility, and the presenters are the ones who are being publicly harassed and threatened.
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All this heartache because "the media" reported that some bloke most Aussies don't give a rats about, shagged a shiela most Aussies don't give a rats about, and said shiela got hospitalised for morning sickness that most pregnant Aussie women deal with everyday without getting hospitalised?
Kill me - I don't want to live on this planet anymore.
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1) Prank call a hospital. Who the hell would think that is a good idea, or clever, or funny? 2) Impersonated a relative to garner confidential medical information. 3) When they realised the prank went too far and were put through to the nurse, they didn't stop the prank. 4) Then they broadcast it to the world. 5) At no point in time did they consider (or they didn't care about) the effect their prank would or could have on the patient, or the nurses who stuffed up. I would also mention that it was 5:30am in the UK.
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Oh FFS, cry me a river. Unless there prank call was "HELP ME, I'M ON FIRE", it's no big deal. The whole world is so focused on being too politically correct, things are going too far the other way.
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08-12-2012, 07:23 PM | #52 | ||
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According to the news tonight there appears to be quite a bit more to this than was first reported.
I am closing the thread for a while until the full story is available. Ok re-opened now that more info is available. Last edited by flappist; 10-12-2012 at 08:28 PM. |
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My thoughts on this:
It is a tragedy when a young lady, Jacintha Saldanha, who was employed as a nurse in a hospital appears to have taken her life after passing a prank call through to another nurse caring for a high profile patient. My questions: 1) This is a hospital. Why did none of the trained professionals and admin staff notice that this lady was fragile? 2) How did the lady listen to 2Day FM in UK? Or did she see/hear this in the UK media, the same media who are now scrambling for high ground and blaming the presenters. 3) All of these death threats etc. from outraged do-gooders. The presenters had no malice or evil intent with the call, the do-gooders are creating the same situation for the presenters but ARE doing it with malice and evil intent. If one or both of the presenters suffer harm because of this is that fair? Or should the do-gooders then be hounded. 4) Why do radio stations do prank calls if EVERYONE thinks they are wrong and dangerous and should be banned? After all the ratings would be less than zero and high profile advertisers like Coles and Telstra would have withdrawn their money years ago. My wife is a Prep teacher. The kids do all sorts of silly things but one thing never changes, if an accident happens they all go into a frenzy blaming someone else, anyone else, just to take any focus off them. Little kids are all instinct and very little thinking. Some things don't change as you get older. So to sum up: Who is to blame for this tragedy? I AM TO BLAME FOR THIS TRAGEDY. I listen to the radio and enjoy it. I laugh at presenters antics. I shop at Coles and use Telstra. I watch the media going bezerk on "A current today sun-minutes". I talk about it on the internet. I watch clips on youtube. And I suspect there may be a few more people who do the same........ What I do not do is grab a pitchfork and join a lynch party to destroy the lives of two young people just so I can feel better about myself and pretend that some form of revenge might bring Jacintha Saldanha back to life or make her family forget how this tragic event robbed them of her. Last edited by flappist; 10-12-2012 at 09:00 PM. |
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Their employer should also be doing more to protect them by making it clear the buck stops with the CEO, not the presenters. I've never found this stuff funny, as a matter of fact I rarely listen to radio stations that do it. But it's been happening since Candid Camera and nobody had any issues with it.
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Because people like a laugh at other peoples expence... human nature... until someones looses an eye.
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Having fun at some one elses expense is bullying cut and dried, pranks are preying on the weak.
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Tragic no doubt, but all this scrutiny on the host's is just ridiculous.
Next thing they'll be blaming Judas Priest for suicides...
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A family has just lost their mother. No one here can say how much pressure this poor woman was under or indeed what sort of person she was. May her soul RIP!
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