What are the ladies after in a man??? - Page 2

Penelope Pitstop · 27-11-2005, 10:23 PM

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Originally Posted by XR_Strider_GuY

Ok I have a question, a guy thats into cars do you rate that as a plus, neutral or uncool thing for a guy. I don't mean talk about cars ever 2nd word, that is very very naff. I mean in the genuine car enthusiast way in the sense that having a nice car is part of his life?

I would rate that very highly because I think having a nice car is very important myself… in fact I have been known to be a bit of a car snob because I am shallow enough not to date men who have crap cars… and before I get sledged I don’t mean old cars or works in progress cars, I am talking Hyundai Excels etc. If they don't get the car thing there is no future.

I actually think a man who knows his way around an engine, mechanically minded and one that is good with his hands is a very attractive quality. But then again I am sure that there are a lot of girls who couldn’t give a flying… well you know. The trick is to find someone with mutual interests and then you can enjoy stuff like that together.

Laminge · 27-11-2005, 10:27 PM

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Originally Posted by phoon

If its tea pots you have in common, then thats fine, but the way this forum is going, maybe the name should be changed from Ford Forums to Tea Pot forums cause they seem to be making there way into every thread.

LOL

so it should, so it should

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Casper · 27-11-2005, 10:32 PM

My wife only married me for my teapot.. it is loverly and shiney though

Angry Beaver · 27-11-2005, 10:34 PM

Nice teapot are you going my way....

XR_Strider_GuY · 27-11-2005, 10:36 PM

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Originally Posted by Casper

My wife only married me for my teapot.. it is loverly and shiney though

Well i don't own a tea pot. Closest thing I have is a Tefal Vitesse (Yeaahs like the Rover 416 Vitesse). Not only is it more aerodynamic than a teapot it cooks my water damn fast.

Casper · 27-11-2005, 10:37 PM

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Originally Posted by XR_Strider_GuY

Well i don't own a tea pot. Closest thing I have is a Tefal Vitesse (Yeaahs like the Rover 416 Vitesse). Not only is it more aerodynamic than a teapot it cooks my water damn fast.

If its a rover it would boil in a few seconds.. just befor the dash cracked. Wonder if women find that sexy too?

Angry Beaver · 27-11-2005, 10:38 PM

I dont like leaky teapots

Casper · 27-11-2005, 10:43 PM

How about toasters? I mean come on, this is sex with duel browning controls!

Angry Beaver · 27-11-2005, 10:44 PM

Nope not into toasters, to warm and when they get wet they go all soggy...

b2tf · 27-11-2005, 10:50 PM

Milkshake maker?

Shonky · 27-11-2005, 11:34 PM

Oh for crying out loud...

I think women look for older, wealthy guys, with good haircuts and facial hair...

That would explain why Im not getting any :(

eb91xr6 · 28-11-2005, 11:40 PM

The Way to sum it up is girls love me, I'm not arrogent , Just superior

XRQTOR · 30-11-2005, 09:03 AM

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Originally Posted by PirtekGirl76

I would rate that very highly because I think having a nice car is very important myself… in fact I have been known to be a bit of a car snob because I am shallow enough not to date men who have crap cars… and before I get sledged I don’t mean old cars or works in progress cars, I am talking Hyundai Excels etc. If they don't get the car thing there is no future.

I actually think a man who knows his way around an engine, mechanically minded and one that is good with his hands is a very attractive quality. But then again I am sure that there are a lot of girls who couldn’t give a flying… well you know. The trick is to find someone with mutual interests and then you can enjoy stuff like that together.

:sm_headba Not to many ladies around who like cars. But in saying that i guess it cuts alot of blokes out of your sites seeing you drive a GT, sounds like you wouldn't date a bloke if his car wasn't better than yours.

RapidTypLady · 30-11-2005, 03:59 PM

I can't talk for all ladies - but for me .. there is nothing nicer than having your man to come home to and talk about how your day went. To enjoy that touch as you walk past each other in the house. The kiss on the cheek. The spontaneous take me anytime deal. The cold water while he is in the shower ... The cuddles ... The holding each others eye contact when you look at each other from across the room and knowing exactly what you and your man are thinking. Money is not the be all and end all. I know all of us need money these days to survive but I like the simplistic things like a walk in the park .. go for a drive in our car, enjoy the sitting on the beach and just watching the sunset and listening to the waves come crashing down as you sit in your mans arms, or running to the car in the rain holding hands.

Yes I suppose I am a hopless romantic but the simple things are more to what I look for in a man.

Relationships are hard enough for people to stay together these days, it use to be the odd ones out were the split couples now it is the odd ones out are the married ones.

I think everyone out there is looking for someone to truly love them for the person they are and yes everyone has to change in one way or another in a relationship but ultimately never loose sight of the person you are and have been and just grow with each other. Complimenting your partner.

This all comes from a person who is learning to cope with not having her man around as he works overseas, so I cherish the moments I do have with him as they are so fleeting.

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niko · 30-11-2005, 04:27 PM

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Originally Posted by Young 'un

I think women look for...facial hair...

i always get told that i should shave coz its to ticklish, go figure...lol

eb2fairmont · 30-11-2005, 05:21 PM

Bud, do you want sex or a relationship?

If sex:
Make sure your hung and have a black AMEX.

If relationship:
Don't lie or bull and be funny. The friendship and "more" will follow. Also be confident and take charge, chicks dig that too, and be more interested in them than they are in you.

But of course you will get the shallow good looking trolls who are just interested in Fabio. But you don't want that anyway.

30-11-2005, 05:38 PM

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Originally Posted by RapidTypLady

...enjoy the sitting on the beach and just watching the sunset and listening to the waves come crashing down as you sit in your mans arms...

Can't see myself spontaioniusly deciding to drive all the way to Perth with the lady for that :P

brodfloyd · 30-11-2005, 05:51 PM

es aint !!!
theres nothing a woman can do that a GT falcon and a fridge cant

Women want what the dont have, and if they get it,
they will find something else to hate u, not talk to u and make u feel like about.

Oh i got dumped by satan rather recently, so my view could be skewed

RapidTypLady · 30-11-2005, 05:55 PM

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Originally Posted by ArgonEF

Can't see myself spontaioniusly deciding to drive all the way to Perth with the lady for that :P

You are too cheeky ...

You can do that with someone close to you ...

Be spontaneous in the fact of loving your partner ..

Mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm

gtfpv · 30-11-2005, 06:13 PM

how about someone that they can blame thier life for going so horribly wrong on.

**GasoLane** · 30-11-2005, 06:30 PM

Originally Posted by RapidTypLady
...enjoy the sitting on the beach and just watching the sunset and listening to the waves come crashing down as you sit in your mans arms...

Oh yeah! try doing this in Bris or Syd

RapidTypLady · 30-11-2005, 06:44 PM

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Originally Posted by GasOLane

Originally Posted by RapidTypLady
...enjoy the sitting on the beach and just watching the sunset and listening to the waves come crashing down as you sit in your mans arms...

Oh yeah! try doing this in Bris or Syd

Oh Man ....

well if you cant do that .. and in Brisbane you can as it gets hot enough I cant comment on Sydneys beaches.

hahahhahaha just go somewhere and be romantic with the one you want to be with .. I am just too much of a hopless romantic I presume. Love to look after my man!!

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Sporty Corty · 30-11-2005, 07:04 PM

I just want one that is relable, bit like a Ford really, good looks and well oiled running gear.

**GasoLane** · 30-11-2005, 07:13 PM

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Originally Posted by GasOLane
Originally Posted by RapidTypLady
...enjoy the sitting on the beach and just watching the sunset and listening to the waves come crashing down as you sit in your mans arms...

Oh yeah! try doing this in Bris or Syd

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Originally Posted by RapidTypLady

Oh Man ....
well if you cant do that .. and in Brisbane you can as it gets hot enough I cant comment on Sydneys beaches.

LOL I meant that Brisvegas & Syd are on the East coast.
If you can sit on the beach there and watch the sunset we're all in BIG trouble!

RapidTypLady · 30-11-2005, 07:58 PM

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Originally Posted by GasOLane

LOL I meant that Brisvegas & Syd are on the East coast.
If you can sit on the beach there and watch the sunset we're all in BIG trouble!

Sweety

Grab someone you like to be with and go and sit on the beach somewhere in this country, world, planet we live on .. well worth it if you feel all the warm fuzzy feelings .. then who knows what might happen ..

Yiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiippppppppppppppeeeeeeeeeeeee

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XR06T · 30-11-2005, 07:59 PM

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Originally Posted by RapidTypLady

Oh Man ....

well if you cant do that .. and in Brisbane you can as it gets hot enough I cant comment on Sydneys beaches.

sydneys beeches are not bad =)
the ones i've seen on the telly anyways!!

Melz · 30-11-2005, 08:13 PM

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Originally Posted by Sporty Corty

I just want one that is relable, bit like a Ford really, good looks and well oiled running gear.

haha.. good call, but one problem, if i picked my men the same as my cars, they would be over 30 years old and slow....

I've been accused of liking guys for their car (sorry i have a need for lots of horsepower and a Ford badge

). So i'll be shallow, i want either an XC Cobra or a drag car, anyone with that let me know...

Its amazing how far guys would get in the world if they listened....so my number 1 tip to you guys LISTEN & TALK THINGS OVER....

PS. By the way toasters and teapots don't do it for me!!! lol

Grechie · 30-11-2005, 08:22 PM

being only young (19) , ive only experienced the dumb immature females....

EBII Fairmont · 30-11-2005, 09:46 PM

I would really like to know where i can meet a nice lady. Like when i go clubbing, I always find a lot of them are floosies, not to be rude or anything. I have had enough of trying to get to know a chick, with the constant competition of music and guys. I've had enough of just picking up and only getting chicks who just want to get it on for the night.

I finally want to have someone stable by my side who i can enjoy their company, have fun with, and who is attractive, but doesn't have to be full on model material. Once i get myself a partner, I won't have a need for clubs.

WHERE CAN US BOYS FIND THESE KIND OF WOMEN???????????

Hunter · 30-11-2005, 11:05 PM

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Originally Posted by PirtekGirl76

What a woman is attracted to is easy to answer – well I think it is…

Looks are not the most important thing for us ladies - although if you are a stallion it doesn’t hurt, but most women will look beyond that.

No lies, excuses or immature crap - this is a big one - so many men are just so full of manure.

Yeah so are some ladies, my ex in particular.

Its not just limited to one particular gender, however. There are liars and bull artists on both sides of the fence.

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Listen – so many men don’t listen and talk to her. Women love to talk.

They suuure do. But on the other hand they also like to use "chat" as a way of playing games with men. E.g. loaded questions.

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The money thing is crap, my ex is extraordinarily wealthy and at the end of the day it means nothing…

Whilst you may feel that way I've seen a lot of women who would make you think otherwise. I've overheard enough conversations amongst women to get a feel that its pretty high on the list of priorities for a large number of women.

I personally have a 1 drink rule when I'm out at a pub or club. If a woman doesn't impress me or at least come across as genuine by the end of the first drink, then I buy no more for them. I know it sounds tight or a bit harsh but really there are too many chicks out there at pubs/clubs who will use you as a way of paying for their night, and then **** off at the end of that night leaving you broke and confused.

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Originally Posted by EBII Fairmont

I would really like to know where i can meet a nice lady. Like when i go clubbing, I always find a lot of them are floosies, not to be rude or anything. I have had enough of trying to get to know a chick, with the constant competition of music and guys. I've had enough of just picking up and only getting chicks who just want to get it on for the night.

I finally want to have someone stable by my side who i can enjoy their company, have fun with, and who is attractive, but doesn't have to be full on model material. Once i get myself a partner, I won't have a need for clubs.

WHERE CAN US BOYS FIND THESE KIND OF WOMEN???????????

Here, here. The general impression I get when I'm out and about is exactly that. And the competition with 1000 other guys makes it one of the worst places to find a woman. So many clubs are a total sausage fest and even if they aren't, there's always some tool who will try and butt in or make a move. Then that leads to fights. Don't see the point in drunken fighting at a club over some random woman. Bugger that.