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02-07-2014, 08:09 PM | #61 | ||
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it wasn't an actual offer, but more of a way to personalise it so that some people actually get the point, and that point it is not OK to touch women (or men) inappropriately
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02-07-2014, 08:44 PM | #62 | ||
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I know it wasn't an actual offer, neither was mine. Either way I know women who have been raped and the one that was actually raped almost 30 years ago always regretted not doing anything about it cause the guy, whom was know to her, could have raped others afterward cause she failed to act. This is something that still haunts her to this day and advice I have heard her give others. Also when approaching police the victims can be given options such as counciling which can literally be life saving.
Reaching out is hard but the downfalls of not doing so can be far, far worse. Also with this particular case, if it made it into the media back in the day due to witness outrage women may have felt they could speak up, like they are now. People did witness him fondling women beyound the slap on the **** I mention earlier (I don't agree with slapping women on the butt but understand it was, sadly, acceptable in the day.) I'm done with this thread, I'm gonna stay out of it from now on. Feel free to pm me if you feel the desire.
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02-07-2014, 09:07 PM | #63 | ||
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Apparently they found a significant record of accessing child porn on Rolf's computer, which he has tried to delete all record of, but for some technicality they couldn't use it in court. I think it was because they thought it would prejudice the jury if they knew the details?
So there is significant evidence against him, inside and outside of the court case. How did he manage to get away with it for so long, same with Jimmy Saville. Not surprisingly they both turned up together one day in the 70's to a women's hospital, right on the time the nurses changed the women's gowns. Deviants. |
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02-07-2014, 09:36 PM | #64 | |||
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Todays work place , be it in the corporate , skilled and or unskilled place , has become very cloudy in what actions are appropriate and what is no longer acceptable .. I have found over the years , you are constantly walking a tight rope between silence or saying something , only to be misunderstood and reported for assault / harassment on the grounds of the list of non negotiables . Today's space no longer is about touch , you can be evading someone space , due to your smell, language, spoken word, whether you clear your throat constantly , etc.. Is a mine field out there . So tread carefully please .. And yes, no sympathy for Rolf , has was allowed by others to continue to make inappropriate actions to others , so much so, it became the norm . Sad !! |
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03-07-2014, 12:35 AM | #65 | ||
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The shame the victim feels places unbelievable forces that stops them from coming forward.
Not wanting to live the moment over again so as not to compound the assault throws up even more barriers. If we can’t understand this basic fear then we are in no position to judge. It is this shame and fear that the perpetrator uses to their advantage. Shame when coupled with the unusually charismatic nature of some perpetrators allows them to successfully offend over and over again. I commend anyone who can stand up and report such personal abuse. I can also sympathise with those that can’t. Cross examining victims from news articles is pointless, go sit in a court room and witness a sexual abuse case in action then draw some conclusions. See the real life distress of the victims and shed a tear for them. Now don’t get me started on domestic violent against women. How many people have known of a woman who has been assaulted/attacked by their spouse and not reported it? We as humans have an unbelievable capacity to turn a blind eye and not get involved. |
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03-07-2014, 04:13 AM | #66 | ||
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that is not quite correct, I teach stuff related to this, the victim could take civil action against you if you know or saw what happened and chose to not be involved, it is a long bow and probably wouldn't do well in court
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03-07-2014, 07:12 AM | #67 | ||
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This is by no means a way of justifying his actions but these incidences were in the 70's and 80's, a different time then today.
A slap on the back side today will see you thrown out of any place of employment now, but then, not so much.
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03-07-2014, 09:49 AM | #68 | |||
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That is true, values have changed but this case also involves underage girls and women that where at the mercy of a stronger entity and that cannot go unpunished. The same reason why today the law doesn’t allow Priests, Doctors, School Teachers and the like to have relationships with people they deal with in their occupational capacity regardless of those people being over the age of consent or not. |
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03-07-2014, 10:21 AM | #69 | |||
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I thought that was a bit suspect but its all above board, the person is out of school. |
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03-07-2014, 09:31 PM | #70 | |||
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would you have preferred a RC into relatives abusing children? the RC has been swamped with witnesses meaning it may have to run for several years to hear all witnesses and get all information, hardly the almost zero problem you seem to imply we're talking about an institution that often systematically protected pedophiles and ignored repeated complaints about certain priests and thereby let the abuse continue. Yes children are most likely to be abused by someone the family knows, but that person has all too often been a family priest. And how many to date have been caught and convicted? Far too few, hence your low % claim which is very flawed as it's based on convictions not crimes that took place but may not have been reported or similar To make the claim that this RC was set up to damage a political opponent is very, very far fetched. It in no way 'damages all Catholics' but may help prevent child abuse by priests in the future and perhaps even make the organisation compensate the large number of victims. |
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03-07-2014, 09:37 PM | #71 | ||
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no that's not ethical and certainly not above board and the possibility of grooming while in a position of trust would be considered by police
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03-07-2014, 10:06 PM | #72 | ||
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Not always, my cousin married her teacher 45 years ago, they have five great grown up kids and adore each other as much now as then, cops are no where near qualified to make that decision, cops just do as there told, there not paid to decide what's wrong or right, they just enforce the law at the time.....
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03-07-2014, 10:28 PM | #73 | ||
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Police don't have a crystal ball they have to be notified and would then consider laying charges
it's then up to a court to decide but these days grooming would be considered as a charge including in the situation you describe Rolf will likely die in gaol and that's where he deserves to be |
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03-07-2014, 11:09 PM | #74 | ||
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A bit of a lynch mob thread this one.
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03-07-2014, 11:13 PM | #75 | |||
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Point 2. Grooming? as in the case that Big Damo referred to, which is basically the same as my Cousin's...... She was classed as adult at the time (and would be today) so acted of her own free will, if anyone would have inferred Grooming they would have been laughed out of court, she is neither dumb or naïve, she is a recently retired children's surgeon.....way smarter than hubby... As I said, Not Always.... Point 3. no contest, I agree...
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03-07-2014, 11:23 PM | #76 | |||
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Sorry for my ignorance, I was born in 1988. So back in the 60's and 70's, it was ok for a female to get slapped or pinched in the *** and that was ok back then?
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03-07-2014, 11:36 PM | #77 | ||
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Have a look at some of the old movies or tv shows from the era, women where portrayed to love it......Monkey see, monkey do....
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03-07-2014, 11:53 PM | #78 | |||
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It's potentially a breach of that trust by the teacher regardless of them marrying as adults. you do understand the concept I'm referring to? Google the term grooming |
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03-07-2014, 11:54 PM | #79 | ||
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04-07-2014, 12:01 AM | #80 | ||
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Seems 'Rolfie needs a hug' was his catchphrase
like many such predators he appears to believe he's innocent |
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04-07-2014, 12:01 AM | #81 | ||
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Yep thats the vibe BA- GTHO when he gets there, but he'll be protected from the inmates more than likely. His form is the ultimate in arrogance, would've love to see his face if a woman slapped him a beauty after being groped!
cheers, Maka
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04-07-2014, 12:09 AM | #82 | ||
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I didn't come down in the last shower.....
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04-07-2014, 09:18 AM | #83 | ||
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After being found guilty why wasn't Rolf remanded in custody awaiting sentancing? Instead he's been out enjoying his last few days in "freedom"
Seems the UK justice system is as sick as ours. |
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04-07-2014, 09:37 AM | #84 | |||
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Two speed justice system maybe cheap cheers, Maka
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04-07-2014, 09:57 AM | #85 | ||||
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Its funny because he come to the school as a young PE teacher, and he was there all the way through 7- 12 when I was there, and I saw the change from fit PE teacher. Then he got married and had a child. Then he started getting fat and losing his hair He used to be so agro all the time too when I was in year 12 and his newborn child wasnt sleeping, he'd fly off the handle about the slightest things because he wouldn't get any sleep, and then it pretty much became a sport to make this guy rage over the slightest things. |
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04-07-2014, 10:09 AM | #86 | ||
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NZ MP has come forward saying she was interviewing Rolf when working in media years ago..
He put his hands between her legs.. She stopped him then and called him a creep ..
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04-07-2014, 10:42 AM | #87 | |||
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04-07-2014, 11:01 AM | #88 | ||
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Oh that sounds way creepy ha
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04-07-2014, 12:48 PM | #89 | |||
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This is the full song here and it's just plain disgusting. He's imitating masturbation sounds and uses innuendos like "come". Even forgetting what he's been convicted of, he was supposed to be a children's entertainer. Hearing him being involved in that clip sounds so wrong. |
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04-07-2014, 12:56 PM | #90 | ||
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For a start there are 365 days in a year (366 on a leap year), second the age of consent is 16 and not 18.
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