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Old 27-11-2011, 11:32 PM   #1
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Default worst day of my adult life......RIP DAD

I had to tell someone other than the few contacts in my phone that my father passed away this morning......... RIP Dad I love you and we miss you already,Im everything I am because of you....
you deserved more than the short life you had., thank you........

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Old 27-11-2011, 11:38 PM   #2
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Sorry for your loss mate, goin to pay my old man a visit because of your post.
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Old 27-11-2011, 11:38 PM   #3
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Sorry for your loss mate.
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Old 27-11-2011, 11:42 PM   #4
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Commiserations and condolences, lost mine 4 yrs ago...........
Hurts, lots, hope it gets a bit easier with time.......... Cheers, Pete
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Old 27-11-2011, 11:43 PM   #5
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Sincere condolences on your loss mate......
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Old 27-11-2011, 11:58 PM   #6
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sucks to hear, i lost mine 7 years ago and yesterday was his birthday. the pain never goes away but you learn to deal with it.
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Old 28-11-2011, 12:14 AM   #7
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What a shame, the best ones always go too soon. Sorry to hear of your loss mate.
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Old 28-11-2011, 12:36 AM   #8
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Sincere condolences mate.
Lost my Dad last year.
As you said, you are who you are because of him, so make him proud.
He may be gone but he is with you, and in your life forever.
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Old 28-11-2011, 01:36 AM   #9
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Sorry for your loss. My daughter once said everyone who dies becomes a star in the sky, so I am sure he is up there keeping watch.
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Old 28-11-2011, 10:05 AM   #10
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RIP to your dad.

(I lost my mum around this time 3 years ago then my stepdad killed himself a month later, it sucks)
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Old 28-11-2011, 11:18 AM   #11
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My condolences friend.
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Old 28-11-2011, 11:33 AM   #12
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mate cant say any thing the guys above havent

I lost mine on Fathersday last year, it was the hardest thing I have had t odeal with so I know where your coming from
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Old 28-11-2011, 12:57 PM   #13
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thanks guys,appreciate your kind words
Today we had to organise the funeral and wake and it starts to hit home more and more the loss.....
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Old 28-11-2011, 01:59 PM   #14
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Sorry for your loss mate.....I lost my Dad (2 yrs ago) and a brother (20 yrs ago tragically) and know what you're going through champ.

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Old 28-11-2011, 02:05 PM   #15
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So sorry to read of your loss, mate. My sincere condolences to you and your family.
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Old 28-11-2011, 03:16 PM   #16
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Sad days, sorry for the loss of your Dad.
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Old 28-11-2011, 04:01 PM   #17
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Sorry to hear of the loss of your father.

Time will make it easier, but the pain is still there. We lost my mum 5 months ago, and I miss her every day. Spend as much time with your family now, as this is when you need each other the most.
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Old 28-11-2011, 04:06 PM   #18
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Condolences to you and your family mate.
We had a recent scare when my dad went in to have brain surgery to drain some bleeding he'd had as the result of a recent fall...just makes you realise how important family is, and that family ALWAYS comes first.
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Old 28-11-2011, 04:14 PM   #19
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Sorry to hear about your loss mate. My condolences to you and your family.
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Old 28-11-2011, 06:59 PM   #21
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My condolences to you and your family.

Personally I lost mine 12 years ago. The only consoling thing for me personally, was one of my sons was born a few weeks later, so he was named in honor of my Dad.
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Old 28-11-2011, 07:04 PM   #22
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May he rest iin peace, thoughts are with you and your family.
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As much as this prob sounds a bit offputting, don't mourn his death, celebrate the life you shared, and live strong in the knowledge that he helped mold you into the person you are today.
They say that the passing of time, makes it easier, or the pain less. Rather then saying it makes it easier, I'll instead say that it gives you time to work out things in your head as to how to accept him not being around.
For me, my own old man is still around, if not in body, at least in the way that I conduct myself, in how I deal with others.
This often gets me into a 'degree' of troubles, but I wouldn't change it for one second.
I'm proud of the man I believe my old man wanted me to become. One day when next, we speak again, I hope that the reverse holds true.
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Old 28-11-2011, 08:00 PM   #24
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I always find it hard when you lose family and friends but, I feel blessed that I knew them and we shared simple but the best of times together. It is not necessary to always be doing amazing things with people, just being together can be the best of times...

Take care and remember the times you spent together...
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thanks guys there are some great people on this forum ,we are celebrating his life at the wake on thursday.hopefully that will help but Im sure bring out more emotions.
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Old 28-11-2011, 08:50 PM   #28
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I am so sorry to hear mate.
I can only imagine how you're feeling.
I lost both my Grandfathers' this year, within 6 months of eachother.
After my father's dad's funeral, I saw the hurt in his eyes. I could feel it.
Nine months on, I can still see the hurt, but slowly, it's easing.

What Dad said to me when I asked him how he was feeling a few months ago was.. "We don't feel sad because they have passed, we mourn for us because we can not see them, or talk to them, or laugh with them. As time passes we realise that we can still do all that, albeit in our hearts and minds and the hurt eases. If that person never leaves your heart or mind, the they never truly leave"

I know that that is getting my Dad through it.

My deepest condolences mate.

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sucks to hear, i lost mine 7 years ago and yesterday was his birthday. the pain never goes away but you learn to deal with it.
This pretty much sums it up ... I lost my Dad in 1990 (he was 40) ... was literally right on my 13th B'day as well.

Sorry to hear about your loss ... the pain lessens with time ... but it's still there.
Just remember the good times you had together.
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I am sorry to hear of you loss of you dad, My condolences are with you and your family.
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