Matthew Johns Sex Scandal

Jay_Rock · 14-05-2009, 12:42 PM

Did anyone watch last nights Interview with Matthew Johns and his wife? I thought the reporter Interviewing was asking stupid questions like "If the chance arised again would you do It again?" and I was like are you kidding me what a dumb question! He said If he had known she was 19 years old he wouldn't have done It. A young girl with a family.. BUT Matthew did quote that APPRENTLY she was willing. That makes It NOT a sex scandal. And the reporter Implying that he did abuse that girl. And he didn't. He said that how many times. The man was beside himself.. speechless as anything. As for his career loss I won't comment on that there's alot of reasons why he should stay In his career and alot of reasons why he shouldn't. She also asked "What would you tell the other players out there about this?" and I was thinking It's not JUST rugby players out there that do this he should be telling every man AND woman who have or will do this that It Is not right. The reporter seemed as If she knew was being right about what she was saying. Both women and men have different approaches and thoughts to a conversation. I would say If a man was Interviewing him the questions may have been more different and more thoughtful.

LTDHO · 14-05-2009, 12:48 PM

So what did he do wrong other than cheating on his wife?

mcflux · 14-05-2009, 12:54 PM

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Originally Posted by LTDHO

So what did he do wrong other than cheating on his wife?

He didn't post it on redtube

Scott · 14-05-2009, 12:57 PM

I wondered if she would have put a Mick Jagger or Bret Michaels through the same ridiculous questions. There is no doubt in my mind that some women go out seeking this sort of attention and I believed pretty much everything Johns had to say about it.

His body language suggested he was being truthful and his wife wasn't suprised about anything that was said.

Sure it wasn't the smartest move for a high profiled person to get involved in but whilst its not my cup of tea, I don't have a problem with consenting adults doing whatever floats their boat.

Interestingly, my wife thought that he was innocent (of everything except cheating) too and was really irritated by Grimshaws idiotic questions and obvious personal disgust. She interviewed him like he was a dirty criminal and tried over and over to get gory details that were far from the best interests of the woman to have aired.

I'm disappointed that he lost his job over something that is seemingly a matter for only him and his wife to sort out.... seven years ago.

King Nothing · 14-05-2009, 12:59 PM

This is a very sad situation for all involved IMO. At the end of the day it does not appear that a "crime" has been done, as the NZ police cleared all involved.

What she actually consented to, I don't know (I don't think anyone knows aside from those in the room at the time). This poor girl has had her life thrown around, be it by her own fault or through the footballers/officials (or both).

Unfortunately Johns has to go. A game that is struggling with a number of sex scandals can't have as their face a man who participated in this event (consenual or not) whilst married. It really is not a good look, and unfortunatly that is how public life works.

Is it fair to ask footballers to not engage in any of these activities if they are consenual? They are not illegal, but it could have the same consequences as this week. It is a real problem for the game.

What sucks is that Johns has been left to cop all the blame. There is a bunch of spineless weaklings sitting in the shadows leaving Johns to cop the wrath of the Australian public. Poor form.

Jay_Rock · 14-05-2009, 01:00 PM

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Originally Posted by LTDHO

So what did he do wrong other than cheating on his wife?

That Is dam right! He was Just In the wrong crowd with a willing LEGAL age for sex 19 year old and apparently people of Australia feel angry and upset Just because they're human and any human would be Angry at someone who got Involved with other guys taking Advantage of a young girl. Who wouldn't. And It's those people that get Angry there Judgement gets clouded and all they wanna think about Is "That man Is a discrace" flippin' heck bad things happen everyday the entire world almost Is on a track leading to something VERY bad. Yes It may seem bad that what he did seemed wrong. But take a relaxed approach at this and REALLY think that It's alot less wrong than what people think It Is. He cheated on his wife.. that's It. Which guy hasn't.. I reckon It's rediculous at what the Public and the Medias perception Is on this.

blueoval · 14-05-2009, 01:01 PM

sounds like a storm in a teacup

Meg's GT's · 14-05-2009, 01:03 PM

Funnily enough being female has nothing to do with how I feel about it all, I haven't automatically taken the 'womans' side because I think there is a hidden agenda in play.
I believe it's a deliberate attempt to shatter the man, his wife and family.
Personally I think he was hung out to dry. Why after 7 years was this bought to the forefront? Money talks...............

blueoval · 14-05-2009, 01:08 PM

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Originally Posted by ausbird

Funnily enough being female has nothing to do with how I feel about it all, I haven't automatically taken the 'womans' side because I think there is a hidden agenda in play.
I believe it's a deliberate attempt to shatter the man, his wife and family.
Personally I think he was hung out to dry. Why after 7 years was this bought to the forefront? Money talks...............

agree there. He's been head hunted because he is has a high profile in the NRL. So they try to make it look worse than it is because it makes for great ratings.

Sam_Boss260 · 14-05-2009, 01:09 PM

Exactly, what I can't understand is that if this happened 7 years ago, was invesitgated, and nothing came out of that, then why after 7 years has this surfaced to bite Johns in the a**. I mean really..... why has this come up now?

Jay_Rock · 14-05-2009, 01:14 PM

That's right wether you're Man or Woman what It comes down to Is taking a real good look and also putting yourself In their shoes and truely understanding there circumstances. This man has a family. This man has had to live with that thought everyday for the last 7 years. Fearing of his career loss and feeling bad everyday that he Is on National Television. Unfortunately talking about problems like this does no Justice. Doesn't change a thing. He was saying "Morally" he has learned and "Morally" he says It was not right. But I think what he was also trying to say to the reporter was that what she was saying and asking was Incorrect, Argumentative and somewhat thoughtless stupid questions on behalf of Australia. I'd say one of the reasons why this secret has finally came out maybe because some secrets cannot be kept. Somethings cannot be kept on ones chest. To live with a thought that haunting can break through the faint hearted.

JC · 14-05-2009, 01:26 PM

Who cares? It's only NRL.

4Vman · 14-05-2009, 01:32 PM

There are a heap of moral questions surrounding this no doubt.
But I cant understand why they're singling out the sport... this kind of thing happens allot, its not just sports people doing it or involved in it...
At the end of the day its a private matter, he's only answerable to his wife and the law, they both dealt with it 7 years ago, the law didn't find fault from a criminal perspective.
He could rightfully go for wrongful dismissal if he has in fact been dismissed.

XR6_661 · 14-05-2009, 01:35 PM

The NRL have cleared Matthew Johns of any misconduct as the kiwi girl at the centre of the sex scandel admitted she wasn't aware of the interchange rule.

Jay_Rock · 14-05-2009, 01:35 PM

Haha It's only NRL straight up.

vztrt · 14-05-2009, 01:37 PM

If you guys wanna see where all this stemmed from it was on a report by four corners.

vid:
http://www.abc.net.au/4corners/conte...interviews.htm

transcript:
http://www.abc.net.au/4corners/conte...9/s2567972.htm

site of the story
http://www.abc.net.au/4corners/conte...9/s2565007.htm

vztrt · 14-05-2009, 01:38 PM

The police will not re-open the case...obviously its blown out of proportion.

http://www.theage.com.au/national/jo...0514-b3z7.html

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Johns sex investigation won't be reopened: NZ police

* May 14, 2009 - 12:11PM

The investigation into the sex scandal that cost disgraced rugby league personality Matthew Johns his job will not be reopened, New Zealand police say.

Johns' media and coaching career is in tatters after the ABC's Four Corners program aired allegations about his involvement in a 2002 group sex incident in Christchurch while he was playing for Cronulla.

Johns was one of several Cronulla players who took part in the act with a 19-year-old woman.

At the time, New Zealand police investigated the woman's claims that the sex was non-consensual, but the investigation cleared all players of wrongdoing.

Detective Inspector David Long, from Christchurch police, said the original investigation involved up to 80 interviews, and was thorough and conclusive.

"I'm completely satisfied that we got full and truthful accounts at the time and that no crime was committed," Detective Inspector Long said today.

"There's renewed interest now, obviously from this television program, but there's been no new information whatsoever that's come forward that changes anything.

"So as far as reopening it, it's just not going to happen."

He said the moral issues around group sex with a teenager were best left to commentators and were not a matter for police.

"There are moral aspects to this ... but these are not for the police to consider when enforcing the law," Detective Inspector Long said.

He also said the woman involved had been in touch with him again recently regarding the case, but that contact had not altered the situation.

Johns has been stood down by the Nine Network and has quit his position as an assistant coach at the Melbourne Storm in light of the recent developments.

The former Test star has apologised for the "pain and embarrassment" he caused the woman, but insisted she was a "willing participant" in everything that occurred in the hotel room seven years ago.

"Any trauma and embarrassment she has gone through as the result of this incident I am extremely sorry for," Johns told the Nine Network last night.

"At no point did she object to what was going on ... at no stage was she under any distress."

He said he was not guilty of abuse, but he was guilty of infidelity and stupidity.

AAP

Feathers · 14-05-2009, 01:44 PM

She'd at least know who the other player she went to the hotel with was.
But Matty is probably the biggest name, and would have certainly meant more money for her story.

If she really was as distressed as she says she wouldn't want to be on tv talking about it.

Jay_Rock · 14-05-2009, 01:48 PM

Any decent person out there saw this coming. It was enevidable. It Is truely blown out of proportions.

LOCO XP · 14-05-2009, 01:49 PM

Just like the Wayne Carey incident and all the other scandals floating around about our wonderful sporting heroes, who really cares. If it is a criminal incident then let it be tried as such, if it's just some questionable but "consensual" incident, then the involved parties and their families should be left to sort it out and pick up the pieces. It's none of my business, and the media shoving it in my face on all outlets, and then it creeping into our beloved Ford Forums.... I still don't care. They may play sport but they're still just people and I give a damn about Matthew Johns' extracurricular activities just as much as Joe Bloggs from Sample Street

bluovl · 14-05-2009, 01:50 PM

I watched the Four Corners show and from what I could work out, this girl says she wants to expose those involved and she doesnt care for what happens to them or their families. Her mistake from years back is now going to bring down others.
I thought Matthew Johns handled himself very professionally and that Tracy Grimshaws questioning was pathetic and ordinary. I felt for Johns and when watching his answers could you could tell that he wanted to let more out but was most likely advised not to.
It appears this girl made a choice 7 years back that she now regrets, and others will now pay for her poor choice.

Jay_Rock · 14-05-2009, 01:58 PM

I don't think there's much else to say other than we all support Matthew not as a Player but as a man who much regrets his actions Just like any other person In the world.

Scott · 14-05-2009, 02:06 PM

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Originally Posted by XR6_661

The NRL have cleared Matthew Johns of any misconduct as the kiwi girl at the centre of the sex scandel admitted she wasn't aware of the interchange rule.

Very subtle...

LOCO XP · 14-05-2009, 02:08 PM

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Originally Posted by Jay_Rock

I don't think there's much else to say other than we all support Matthew not as a Player but as a man who much regrets his actions Just like any other person In the world.

Yeah I'd regret my actions too.... if I got caught and had to live with the consequences he has faced. No sympathy here

ADSXR8 · 14-05-2009, 02:11 PM

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Originally Posted by GTP006

Very subtle...

and inappropriate.

DeansXR8 · 14-05-2009, 02:11 PM

I feel for the girl involved, it probably would be hard living with something like that, but really, most girls/women wouldn't put themselves in that situation in the first place and a stated by John's she was a willing participant.
I think the NRL does need to take action to try and bring a more family-ish reputation to the game, but this wasn't illegal and was 7 years ago on a different tangent-
Andrew Johns using drugs however is illegal and channel 9 & NRL/david gallop say...
"You can't condone it but you can't throw him on the scrap heap. We need to rally around Andrew and provide the right rehabilitation processes to take him forward and get him out of this and make sure he never returns to it." (quote from ABC news)

but back to Matty's problem,
What i do find strange is a couple of things, why John's is coping all the blame when, she was a willing participant and there were other players involved (regardless of if they become known or not) and also the Shark's board knew of this and nothing was mentioned of them disregarding it at the time?
..And why go to the media/ remember it now, if i read (sorry-if my wife read's) of this story in a womans magazine sometime soon then i will understand it has just been for $$$. I apologise if i'm wrong but i reckon that's where its heading.

I honestly just think it is another example of people not taking responsibilty for their own actions and descisions. Johns told the truth to his wife and the police and both moved on, I think morally it wasn't right but he was definitly hard done by compared to punishment dealt out before by the NRL, considering Brett Stewart is still playing.

DeansXR8 · 14-05-2009, 02:14 PM

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Originally Posted by Feathers

If she really was as distressed as she says she wouldn't want to be on tv talking about it.

Exactly.

RIPGMH · 14-05-2009, 02:14 PM

Would he have lost his job at Ch.9 if it were revealed he was a Homosexual cheating on his wife?

XR6_661 · 14-05-2009, 02:16 PM

Ohhhh deal with it and get a sense of humour.

ADSXR8 · 14-05-2009, 02:17 PM

Something majority footy players aer not good at doing is using their head.

Matt John's admitted last night the reporter from 4 Corners asked him about the incident and to participate in the story, he declined.

For his interview last night, it was 2 days late IMO. There appears to be enourmous inconsistancy between the story's. If Matt's version of events was air on Monday night with the other side of the story, I think what has happened in the last 24 hours would be different.